Addressed to all Americans, and ULTIMATELY All Human Beings

One of the most beautiful things about being American...was the opportunity created for my Grandmother (who was 100% Polish Catholic) to meet and marry my Grandfather (who was 100% English protestant). Though not profoundly different, they were different enough in their cultures for it to be a challenge for them to be together. In any case, this meeting and ultimately marriage between them represents the beauty of America's profound ability to facilitate and celebrate Diversity...Diversity of nationalities, histories, background, perspectives, religion, beliefs, physical appearance, and mostly to celebrate the beautiful gift of freedom to live and be as we wish to be (with logical and moral exceptions of course!) Because of this country and our ancestors incessant search for this freedom and need for something different, I am here in an overall Beautiful, Loving, Forgiving, Accepting, free Country. And because of not only the example of my ancestors, but the example of all of our ancestors from perspectives of diversity was I inspired to find my truth and to learn about myself and who I want myself to be.

Right now our Country and ultimately the World is consumed with hurt, anger, sadness, entitlement, disrespect, and disregard for God's gift of freedom of choice. We have become tense and consumed with the pain from a whole lot of bad choices made by those before us. Unfortunately we have to face those bad choices in order to move forward and begin the healing process. But instead of projecting all of the pain in an angry and irresponsible way as we all tend to do from time to time, please take a deep deep breath, re-center and remind yourself of the purpose and the goal of our Beautiful Country.

Do your best and just keep trying to remember to stay focused on finding love in everything you see and experience in your search for your truth. And as you deal with your personal pain and the pain in our Country, keep yourself in check along the way by making responsible decisions and by avoid immediate emotional reaction. Re-center yourself to identify why it made you feel that way. And please remember to keep your pride and entitlement in check.

Facing all of this pain will be extremely difficult. But only through accepting our pain can we break through to the love, truth and acceptance that we are all ultimately searching for.

Humans are natural problem solvers, and being that we are a Country with a lot of problems…I ask everyone to push yourself to believe, support and have faith that everything happens for a reason. So whoever you are…whatever your story is…however you look...whatever you feel your truth is….and ultimately whatever you believe you stand for……….get back up and dust yourself off.

Our anger from the pain a completely out of control right now, but as we all individually have our boundaries, so does our Country. Please don’t let us get too far gone. Please keep that anger in check! Not that I’m saying not to be angry, as I said before, it is necessary in order to begin the healing. But rather than lashing out at each other and reacting…look for ways to constructively process and channel all of this anger. Listen to each other openly while remembering to respect, love and accept each other'd differences. 

The Beauty of our Country is that we live in an existence that allows us to express ourselves more freely than other existences for sure! Just do it responsibly, morally, and with love at your core intentions. This is the only way we can fight, conquer and then begin to heal. 

And again, If you find yourself strongly disagreeing with the way our Country is choosing to move forward, remember the pieces our ancestors have put in place along the way to make sure we don’t go too far and loose our focus. Remember their sacrifice, their strength and their goal…let that be your guide and example to make better choices…choices originating from love and truth.

I love our world…I love the diversity…I love the natural ability we have to work together. Just make sure the direction and goal you seek stems from a loving place and it will all fall into place. I promise.

And with that, find your happy place and what helps you to connect with the love inside yourself. And remember some are disconnect from their love more than others because of hurt and pain. Empathize, validate and accept them…because even pain has truth…it’s just what you do with that pain that makes us all so so very different. 

Hug. Hug. Kiss. Kiss.

Love, 
H K

ENJOY THE WORLD...that will bring us all peace
All of us are collections of individual and shared experiences...learn who you are by looking at yourself.